Unlike previous entries on this topic, today I am going to look at something a little more laid back. I’ve heard people call it ‘fun money’, ‘mad money’ or the like. Basically, I am talking about the things outside of the regular family budget - this may include your Starbucks habit, the occasional lunch out, or perhaps even your passion for golf or scrapbooking.
Quite simply, every couple should have ‘fun money’ for themselves as individuals to do with as they wish. We all have certain habits and hobbies and having this sort of financial allocation is an easy way to be able to address those desires in a responsible manner.
What is a responsible manner you may ask? In order for ‘fun money’ to work in a functional way, it must have the following qualifiers attached to it:
1. You - as a couple - must be responsible in the other aspects of your financial life. This means living by the 80-10-10 rule, managing your debt wisely, and being responsible in your financial activities with your spouse. Obviously, ‘fun money’ allocations cannot overturn your fiscal responsibility with the rest of your finances.
2. Each spouse must have their own ‘fun money’ to work with. It will not be a tenable situation if one spouse has it while the other doesn’t, or if the amounts are not equitably distributed between both spouses.
3. You must not question your spouse in how they handle their ‘fun money’. If they choose to spend it all at Starbucks, then that is their choice. In the same manner, don’t let it drive you crazy to watch your spouse engage in some type of activity or hobby if that is where they desire to funnel their funds.
We all work hard, and in return for that, we can expect some small pleasure and enjoyment outside of our day-to-day routines. The judicious use of fun money allows you to increase your life pleasure while still maintaining responsibility with the financial things that matter most to your family.